elwapo
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Had a similar situation on the ranch on which I was raised. Grampa ran the show and the son in laws listened. When grampa passed away the world blew up with eveyone thinking that they were owed a living because they had paid their dues. The end result was my father starting his own operation, but his house was still located on the home place. That again exploded when my mother passed away and my father and grandmother had a falling out. I was away at ag school at the time and never went back to the home place. I started my own place when I returned to the area and have since purchased some of the home ranch to ad to my own holding. My father basically gave his house to the other side of the family and started over. It was the most heart breaking and educating experience of my life. The bottom line is do not assume you are owed anything as a son, cut your own path in the world. If you want to ranch bad enough you will do it regardless of the family. A little time away from the ranch will confirm whether the son wants to follow the ranching way of life.