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PostPosted: Sun Jul 17, 2005 11:51 pm    Post subject: Heartbroken 16 year old!!! Reply with quote

As i sit here writing to all of you, my 16 year old daughter lays on the couch, in a fetal position, sobbing quietly! You see, her year old Jack Russell Terrier named Champ has disappeared! He had taken up the bad habit of travelling our drive to the main highway (located almost 2 miles away) and sitting at the cattle guard and waiting for family members to return from town! I absolutely hate to see dogs chained up, so I made the mistake of hoping he would simply grow out of the problem! Our vet told me the best thing to do was get Champ "fixed".....so, I did! This "solution" seemed to work....for a week, anyway! The last we saw of Champ was approximately 36 hours ago! He is super friendly and loves all people so it would not surprise me at all if someone saw him sitting there on the side of the road and called to him and he jumped in their vehicle and off they went! So, please keep your eyes and ears open for Champ! He is one year old, has a rod in his right femur (from a 4-wheeler accident when he was only 4 months old), is mostly white except for a black tail and a full black mask and is neutered! Jessica would be happy knowing that Champ is safe, taken care of and is being loved! Not knowing where he is or how he is doing is the worst part for her! Her heart is simply broken! Any suggestions on how to get her through this would be greatly appreciated! Thank you and a good night to you all!!!! Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 18, 2005 12:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I sure hope you find your pup. I know how heart broken I would be without my lil dog. Hope you get him back for the sake of your daughter. Tell her to keep her chin up. Wish I could help!


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 18, 2005 4:35 am    Post subject: Re: Heartbroken 16 year old!!! Reply with quote

ranchwife wrote:
As i sit here writing to all of you, my 16 year old daughter lays on the couch, in a fetal position, sobbing quietly! You see, her year old Jack Russell Terrier named Champ has disappeared! He had taken up the bad habit of travelling our drive to the main highway (located almost 2 miles away) and sitting at the cattle guard and waiting for family members to return from town! I absolutely hate to see dogs chained up, so I made the mistake of hoping he would simply grow out of the problem! Our vet told me the best thing to do was get Champ "fixed".....so, I did! This "solution" seemed to work....for a week, anyway! The last we saw of Champ was approximately 36 hours ago! He is super friendly and loves all people so it would not surprise me at all if someone saw him sitting there on the side of the road and called to him and he jumped in their vehicle and off they went! So, please keep your eyes and ears open for Champ! He is one year old, has a rod in his right femur (from a 4-wheeler accident when he was only 4 months old), is mostly white except for a black tail and a full black mask and is neutered! Jessica would be happy knowing that Champ is safe, taken care of and is being loved! Not knowing where he is or how he is doing is the worst part for her! Her heart is simply broken! Any suggestions on how to get her through this would be greatly appreciated! Thank you and a good night to you all!!!! Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad


This works. You sit down and pray that God will either bring Champ home or take care of him according to His plan and give peace of mind.

Our son still remembers when he was in about second grade his new bike with new stickers disappeared. He said he asked God to bring it back and asked us if God would. Gulp! We said hopefully that would be the answer if it was HIs will.
So nothing happened.
Then one day he hopped excitedly off the school bus and said he'd spied his bike somewhere along the bus route in someone's yard. Sure enough, so he snagged it with its telltale stickers and one happy boy. He remembers that answer to prayer to this day.
Years later he gave his fiance a diamond engagement ring set by a friend. She was in college and working weekends at a bakery/restaurant. She returned home after work one night and noticed the diamond was gone! She prayed with her mom and they backtracked looking everywhere for that little diamond (Not any huge rock of a diamond!) and found it lodged under a payphone probably swept by a broom or something. Very Happy
I really believe God loves us like the perfect and best father would and wants the very best for us so sometimes allows these painful challenges to help us trust Him more and grow to maturity. Now if I could just remember that DURING the frustration Mad Exclamation Wink

I hope Champ comes back into your life quickly with all waggle intact.


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 18, 2005 9:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

AaAAAwwww It is so hard to watch your kiddos go through life's tough hurdles. As a parent you would like to think you could fix any problem that might come up, then feel so helpless when you can't.


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 18, 2005 10:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Although I prefer nr's thinking...

Our daughter lost her favorite dog and never did find it. She has a picture of that dog today, on her counter and she lost her over 18 years ago.

It is just damn tough to get over losing a favorite pet.

I am so sorry this happened. It seems it is worse when it happens to young girls. They feel things so intensely.

Poor little girl... Cry Help Heart


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 18, 2005 10:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I had a similar fate happen a few years again and it did have a happy ending. When moving to the area we are now, we put our dogs in the back section of the trailer. Our clothes were in the truck and we thought they'd enjoy it back there better anyway. When we got here, my dog Cowboy was gone. I was devasted. I drove the 2 hour trip to the old place every day. I wasn't sure if he got out somehow on the drive or jumped out at the gas station when we left. Neither seemed possible since it was a featherlite with small air holes and he's a pretty stout blue heeler. I found him once standing in the median, he was so disoriented that he ran away from me. I put up a reward and signs all over that area and eventually one of the old farmers found him. He was gone for 3-4 weeks. He was very happy to see me and me him. I understand the fear of just not knowing. That was the hardest part for me. Tell your daughter to keep her head up and stay persistant, sometimes these things do end OK. Oh and by the way, Cowboy was found about half way from the old place and the new place. He either jumped out on the highway going about 80 miles an hour or he walked about 100 miles. Silly dog.


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 18, 2005 11:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

My then 9 year old's kitten disappeared for 9 days back in 1989 - 90. It was during floods and our house was being re-roofed. We live on a cul-de-sac with flood drains right in front of our house. We figured either the roofer squished Kitty with roofing material he threw down or Kitty got washed into the flood drains.

My daughter put signs up everywhere.

Nine days afterwards, Kitty showed up on her own bedraggled, stinking to high heaven, and skin and bones. She was afraid of her shadow for the rest of her life (She died in 2002). We always wondered what her tale would be if she could talk. Also, how did she find her way back???


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 11:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If it is a Jack Russel, its still prolly bouncing off a tree somewhere trying to catch a rabbit or still digging in a badger hole somewhere. Wink


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 11:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Put an ad in the paper call the neighbors. It'll return.......I'll bet money on it.... Wink


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 6:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

TXTibbs wrote:
If it is a Jack Russel, its still prolly bouncing off a tree somewhere trying to catch a rabbit or still digging in a badger hole somewhere. Wink


Pretty close, Tibbs!! Very Happy Our prayers (thanks for the suggestion, nr) were answered! Champ climbed into the cab of a tourists car and the people had a surge of guilt and dropped him off at the front door of the local vet! Fortunately, the vet knows us well and gave Jessica the call herself and said she had Champ....safe and sound!! Now, we getta find out how to keep him from "sight seeing"....i simply hate chaining up a dog, but will have to do so until we can scrounge up the money for a kennel!! Thank you all so very much for your kind words of support...sure meant alot to jessica!!


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 7:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

ranchwife wrote:
TXTibbs wrote:
If it is a Jack Russel, its still prolly bouncing off a tree somewhere trying to catch a rabbit or still digging in a badger hole somewhere. Wink


Pretty close, Tibbs!! Very Happy Our prayers (thanks for the suggestion, nr) were answered! Champ climbed into the cab of a tourists car and the people had a surge of guilt and dropped him off at the front door of the local vet! Fortunately, the vet knows us well and gave Jessica the call herself and said she had Champ....safe and sound!! Now, we getta find out how to keep him from "sight seeing"....i simply hate chaining up a dog, but will have to do so until we can scrounge up the money for a kennel!! Thank you all so very much for your kind words of support...sure meant alot to jessica!!


I am SOOO happy for your Jessica. What heart break it is to lose a beloved animal as a young person.


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 7:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Now, we getta find out how to keep him from "sight seeing"....i simply hate chaining up a dog, but will have to do so until we can scrounge up the money for a kennel!!


Get one of those electronic collar jobs that will shock him when he leaves the yard.


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